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How to get over it?
Posted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 11:44 pm
by spencer ellerbusch
I need some advice..
Ive just been broken up with my girlfriend....
So like what can help me not forget about it because i dont want to forget..But to keep my mind busy.
Ive really struggled today. I been studying but i cant focus..I went to a HS Basketball game but didnt even watch the game..
I just need some more advice on how i can coap with it for little while..Besides

because im only 15 and im not that kind of person..
Thank you
-Spencer

Re: How to get over it?
Posted: Wed Dec 17, 2008 7:07 am
by PurpleMustReign
I went through the same thing last May, and it sucks.
Anything that reminds you of her make sure you put it in a box or something and put it in the closet. Like you said keep yourself busy. There isn't much you can do but let yourself heal, and surround yourself with friends and family. It takes time, and it feels like forever, but you'll make it through.
Good luck!! Let me know if you need more advice, like I said I went through the same thing a few montha ago.
Josh
Re: How to get over it?
Posted: Wed Dec 17, 2008 9:44 am
by cstelter
Maybe try to focus on others and their feelings to avoid stressing on your own. Find something nice to do for someone else like you Mom or Dad, or friends at school, etc. Volunteer to do things you don't have to do that are nice for others.
Re: How to get over it?
Posted: Wed Dec 17, 2008 12:44 pm
by jackal
I have always found working out or running to be a good way to get rid of
stress.
a lot of it is just time though to be honest..
you cared for this person and now there gone in a way...
try and look at it postively though and remember good things
or think to the future what mistakes did I make with this relationship
that I don't want to make the next girl who is twice as HOT as the last

Re: How to get over it?
Posted: Wed Dec 17, 2008 7:33 pm
by Hunter Morrow
There are 3.5 billion other women to try, and in the meantime you still have 10 fingers.